Go on a date with your spouse the same way you dated before you were married.  Dress to impress.  Don't talk about the kids, or the house, or work.  

For the guys...be a gentleman.  Open the car door, hold doors open, go last, bring an umbrella if it rains, offer your jacket if she's cold.  And ladies...let him!  Say thank you and enjoy the chivalrous behavior, soak it in.  

Prepare your date for what you're doing.  Tell them what to wear, (example: Dress casually, we will be active on this date.) how long the date may take, and if they should bring anything.  

Speak your partner's love language!  "Speaking" your partner's love language is an easy thing to do...IF you know what it is.  If you do, be sure to pamper your date by communicating with them in the way that THEY feel loved.  If you don't know what love languages are, read my blog post on this and discover your partner's love language.  
Trust me, it's simple and worth the 10 minutes it will take you to discover.    
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